Self-love .

Everyone wants to be loved . That’s totally fine ! It’s a  part of human nature . But, what about being loved by ourselves? Self-love is the key to a better life , trust me. When you love yourself first you wouldn’t be sad or frustrated because people didn’t show you enough attention . If you don’t give yourself the love you want , then who’s going to love and respect you ?

Some people don’t understand the exact meaning of self-love . Loving yourself means you treat it well , you respect it . But how? Okay , I’m going to explain. There are three steps that you should follow : Dress well , eat well , and think well. First, if you dress well (clean clothes , fashionable ones,…as you like ) you’ll be confident about yourself. Because you gave it attention by wearing your best clothes , so you’ll be happy about it. Next, eating well means having a healthy body, so a healthy brain. Drink lots of water , eat vegetables and fruits , etc. Last but not least , if you want to think well, read books, meditate ( prayers are considered as meditation 😉 ), get a fresh air, and surround yourself by positive energy. If you follow these three simple steps, you’ll be positive about any negative situation. It might affect you, but you’ll be stronger and healthier phisically and spiritually.

So, these are a few benefits of self-love:

  • It erases the negative thinking from your mind.
  • You’ll be happy by giving yourself love and attention.
  • Your life will be better by focusing only on yourself ( I’m not saying be selfish or narcissistic )

It’s not selfish to love yourself, to take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It’s necessary. You don’t have to like everything about yourself to love it, but accept your flaws instead. self love

There are many other beneficial steps, just google them. And, this is my personal advice for me and you all. I’m not perfect at living ; I’m just learning xx .


5 Comments Add yours

  1. mydaisydaze says:

    Nice post. It’s a well known fact that if you don’t look after yourself; physically, mentally and spiritually, you wont be able to look after anyone else.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. zaralouki says:

      Exactly 💯 and thanks for giving me your opinion 🌹.


  2. mike7sedona says:

    Great – your experiences have taught you well and you have adapted quite well to the ground realities of life! You are correct in stating that there’s nothing wrong in loving yourself for your own welfare. It is quite necessary to do so in today’s changed world where you hardly get time for yourself. Your enlightened post goes a long way in educating people who find themselves in a similar circumstance. Keep loving yourself, enjoy life and be true to yourself – God bless you! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    1. zaralouki says:

      Thanks for reading. I appreciate it!

      Liked by 1 person

      1. mike7sedona says:

        Thank you – Happy blogging! 🙂


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